Congratulations on your new house!

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Here are three ways to rein in your new house enthusiasm and get some control of your passion:

1. Step back and take a deep breathe

I cannot tell you how many times my husband has said that to me this year.  The funny thing is, it’s not about the inside of the house!  Our kitchen is still only half way done, but it doesn’t bother me.  Our bedroom needs to be rearranged, but that’s okay.  So what’s my problem?  The outside of our house!!

We moved in December and as soon as Spring hit, I was ready to start ripping up old plants and adding new native ones.  My husband wanted to wait and see what would come up naturally.  Of course he was right, but don’t tell him I said that!  Yes, we did find lots of surprises.Some things we wanted to keep and others we still wanted to change.  For example, I really wanted to turn the yard on the side of our garage into a butterfly garden.  It seemed like all Hostas and Lily of the Valley to me.  He agreed to give me half the space and keep the other half as we found it. 

Halfway through the summer, as we saw what came up, he did agree to expand it.  However, I was glad we waited.  I never knew that when Hostas flower, they attract hummingbirds!  We did give some plants away and move some, but by slowing down I was able to get a better plan of what we will do in the fall and next spring.

Whether its inside or out, step back and take in the big picture of what needs to be done.

2. Prioritize your needs

There were some things we rushed into with the house.  Since there was only one bathroom and it looked straight out of the 70’s, we immediately remodeled.  The kitchen?  We bought appliances and are slowly painting the cabinets and redoing it ourselves.  To me it is functional and less of a priority….however now that I have drawers that work I am loving my kitchen even more!

No matter what it is you chose to do, think about what really needs to be done to live in the house.  Not everything can be done at once (unless you are not living in the house or have an unlimited budget).  Try to make a plan….what needs to be done before you move in, in the first six months, the first year, the first five years, etc. 

Make a priority list (and unlike your house hunting list, try to stick to this one)

3. Remember to enjoy the first year

It’s a little like having a child or a new puppy….you only get that first year once.  Be sure to enjoy it!  Sometimes you get lost in the hustle and bustle of trying to finish your goals for the house.  You also must take time to relish in the newness along the way. 

Love your new yard?  Make time everyday to walk through it.  Your mind might race to all the things you want to do, but also just sit and take it all in. 

Everything changes over the course of a year….each season brings something different inside and out. 

By taking time to enjoy the small things in your house you might reconsider some of your plans.

Don’t get so wrapped up in what needs to be done you forget what you have.

The new house enthusiasm does wane 

Nothing lasts for ever and before you know it,  it will seem like you have lived in your “new” home forever.  Recognize your feelings and know it’s okay if you feel overwhelmed at times.

Remember to take a deep breathe, think about your priorities, and just enjoy yourself!

Good things come to those who wait!